Namaste..
Advice is one of the most valuable things we can offer someone. It comes from our experiences, wisdom, and understanding of life. However, not everyone will recognize or appreciate its worth. That’s why it’s essential to think before giving advice—will the other person truly understand its value?
Advice Should Not Be Given Away Carelessly
Just like we don’t give expensive gifts to those who won’t appreciate them, we should treat our advice the same way. When we share our thoughts and experiences, we are giving away something precious—our knowledge. But if the person we are advising does not recognize its importance, our words may be wasted.
Think about it: How often have you given someone good advice, only for them to ignore it or dismiss it? It can be frustrating, but it also teaches us an important lesson—advice should only be given when the other person is willing to listen and understand.
The Right Advice at the Right Time
Wisdom is not just about what to say but also when and to whom to say it. Before offering advice, ask yourself:
- Is the person open to listening?
- Will they genuinely benefit from my advice?
- Are they capable of understanding and applying it?
If the answer is “no,” it may be better to stay silent and let them learn through their own experiences. Some lessons in life are best understood through personal trials.
Let People Seek Your Advice
Instead of offering unsolicited advice, create an environment where people feel comfortable coming to you. When someone actively seeks your guidance, it means they are ready to listen and apply what you have to say. This way, your wisdom will have a much greater impact.
Final Thoughts
Your advice is valuable—treat it as such. Not everyone will recognize its worth, and that’s okay. Be mindful of when and to whom you give it. Sometimes, silence is wiser than words, and letting people learn on their own can be the best lesson of all.
